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art of flirting Spice up your life with playful communication skills and saucy signals. Mar 2, 7-9 pm. All genders welcome. $35. Good for Her, 175 Harbord. Register 416-588-0900, www.goodforher.com.

arousal and sexual energy skills Develop your orgasmic capacity in this hands-off self-arousal class. Mar 4, 7-9:30 pm. $35. All genders welcome. $35. Good for Her, 175 Harbord. Register 416-588-0900, www.goodforher.com.

art and joy of a hand job Learn manual sex techniques and skills to pleasure your partner. Practise on dildos. Women, FTM & trans men only. Mar 9, 7-9:30 pm or Apr 4, 7-9:30 pm. $35. Good for Her, 175 Harbord. Register 416-588-0900, www.goodforher.com.

awakening your goddess A tantric weekend for women only includes getting in touch with your sexual energy, freeing the female orgasm, opening to pleasure, expanding your creativity and sacred celebration. Apr 8-10. $525. Mysthaven Retreat Centre, Stouffville. 1-800-684-5308, 4freedoms@tantraloving.com.

belly dance Experience this sensual, poetic, spritual and erotic form of dance. Ignite your body at this women-only workshop. Feb 26, 1-3:30 pm. $30. Good for Her, 175 Harbord. Register 416-588-0900, www.goodforher.com.

bdsm 101 Learn to translate sexual desires from fantasy to reality through role-play, D&S, flogging, rope bondage and sensory deprivation toys. Feb 24, 7-9:30 pm. $35. All genders welcome. Advance registration. Good for Her, 175 Harbord. 416-588-0900, www.goodforher.com.

bdsm 201 Go deeper into the world of SM play. Rope bondage, flogging, caning, and sensory deprivation are explored. Learn about safety, negotiation, scene set-up, psychological aspects of SM and aftercare tips. Mar 10, 7- 9:30 pm. $35. All genders welcome. Advance registration. Good for Her, 175 Harbord. 416-588-0900, www.goodforher.com.

bigger, better and multiples Become multi-orgasmic and experience full-body orgasms while exploring sexual anatomy, erogenous zones, toys and techniques for enjoying more powerful and longer-lasting orgasms. All genders welcome. Mar 16, 7-9:30 pm. $35. Good for Her, 175 Harbord. 416-588-0900, www.goodforher.com.

burlesque dancing for fun and profit Release your inner showgirl at this workshop as you learn the moves and tricks to performance. Feb 12 or Mar 18, 7-9:30 pm; or Apr 9, 1-3:30 pm. $35. Women only. Advance registration. Good for Her, 175 Harbord. 416-588-0900, www.goodforher.com.

celebrating the body erotic for men Explore your erotic energy in a playful and safe environment. Gain greater access to your emotions and desires to create more satisfying erotic relations. Apr 23-24 or Oct 22-23. Men only. $395. Body Electric School. 416-598-3775, www.bodyelectric.org.

deepening intimacy for couples Enhance your relationship at this experiential workshop that teaches how to intensify your connection and make communication more effective. Feb 16, 7-9:30 pm. $60. Good for Her, 175 Harbord. Register 416-588-0900, www.goodforher.com.

diving into ecstasy This intro to spiritual sex and Tantric lovemaking includes practical exercises for freeing female orgasm and male ejaculation mastery. All genders welcome. Heterosexual focus. Apr 14, 7-10 pm. Good for Her, 175 Harbord. Register 416-588-0900, www.goodforher.com.

dssg summer camp Attend summer camp w/ pansexual women and men, singles or couples involved in or interested in learning about BDSM. Play parties, workshops, hot tubs, BDSM artisans and more near Lake Simcoe this summer. $100 till Mar 15, $150 after. http://www.dssg.org/camp.htm.

erotic photography For photographers of all levels, includes a private photo shoot with each participant. Feb 16 & 23, 7:30-10pm. $75. Advance registration. Come as You Are, 701 Queen W. 416-504-7934, www.comeasyouare.com.

find your g-spot Uncover myths of the elusive G-spot in this hands-on workshop. Women only. Apr 3, 1-4 pm. $35. Good for Her, 175 Harbord. Register 416-588-0900, www.goodforher.com.

fire breath orgasm meditation Learn basic sexual energy skills, then practise them with a rousing energy meditation. Experience enhanced arousal and full-body energy orgasm. Mar 5, 11 am-5 pm. $75. All genders welcome. Good for Her, 175 Harbord. Register 416-588-0900, www.goodforher.com.

genital massage for couples Explicit techniques and instructions to delight your partner’s body. Private practice opportunity for each couple. Feb 19, 10 am-5 pm (men and women), 6-10 pm (women, transmen and FTM’s massage). $125 couple, $90 massage. Good for Her, 175 Harbord. Register 416-588-0900, www.goodforher.com.

get her off! This workshop offers techniques for women to pleasure each other including oral and manual, fisting, harnesses and toys. Women, transmen and FTMs only. Apr 12, 7-9:30 pm. $25. Good for Her, 175 Harbord. Register 416-588-0900, www.goodforher.com.

giving head Fellatio techniques from start to finish, how to eroticize the use of condoms, demos and opportunities to practise. Women, FTM and transmen. Feb 28, Mar 23 & Apr 13, 7-9:30 pm. $35. Good for Her, 175 Harbord. Register 416-588-0900, www.goodforher.com.

going down This oral sex workshop for him and her offers advanced oral techniques that will add variety for both. Couples and singles of all genders. Mar 29, 7-9:30 pm. $35. Good for Her, 175 Harbord. Register 416-588-0900, www.goodforher.com.

hands and fEEt bondage This hands-on class teaches the intricacies of binding hands, feet, fingers and toes. Bring parachute or thin cord. Apr 20, 7:30-9:30 pm. $35. All genders welcome. Come As You Are, 701 Queen W. 416-504-7934, www.comeasyouare.com.

hands-on flogging Fetish Diva Midori leads novices in an evening of useful flogging tips and the more experienced in technique, strokes and whip selection. Apr 19, 7:30 pm. $40. All genders welcome. Come As You Are, 701 Queen W. 416-504-7934, www.comeasyouare.com.

here’s looking at you! know your own vulva Genital erogenous zones are discovered in this women-only workshop. Discussion on the sexual intricacies of female anatomy and pleasuring techniques. Mar 31, 7-9:30 pm. $30. Good for Her, 175 Harbord. Register 416-588-0900, www.goodforher.com.

how to drive your man wild with pleasure Become the best lover ever by mastering the touch and techniques that will make you irresistible. Women only. Apr 7, 7-9 pm. $45. Good for Her, 175 Harbord. Register 416-588-0900, www.goodforher.com.

i make her moan! Expand your lovemaking skills with advanced techniques for making intercourse more satisfying for both partners. Oral, manual stimulation and the use of toys also covered. Men, FTM and transmen only. Apr 6, 7-9:30 pm. $35. Good for Her, 175 Harbord. Register 416-588-0900, www.goodforher.com.

i want to make porno An in-depth exploration of making pornography from softcore to hardcore. Discussion on how we view and make sexual imagery, marketing your product and the role of the Ontario Film Review Board. Feb 15, 7 pm. $10. Trinity Square Video, 401 Richmond W. Register 416-593-1332.

learning to orgasm Understand how to become orgasmic and learn the skills to get you there. Psychological as well as physical apsects of being orgasmic are discussed. Mar 21, 7-9:30 pm. $30. Women only. Good for Her, 175 Harbord. Register 416-588-0900, www.goodforher.com.

let it go, let it flow: g-spots and female ejaculation Discuss new ideas and attitudes about women’s bodies and ejaculation. G-spot novices and seasoned practitioners welcome. Women, transmen and FTM only. $35. Feb 10, 7-9:30 pm. Advance registration. Good for Her, 175 Harbord. 416-588-0900, www.goodforher.com.

maps of the clitoris Learn the truth about female anatomy, genital structures, arousal and orgasm. Mar 3, 7-9:30 pm. $35. All genders welcome. Good for Her, 175 Harbord. Register 416-588-0900, www.goodforher.com.

muff diving for men The art of cunnilingus, the oral caress, is examined at this workshop of tips, tricks, toys and advanced positions. Mar 8, 7-9:30 pm. $30. Men, transmen and FTM’s welcome. Good for Her, 175 Harbord. Register 416-588-0900, www.goodforher.com.

pulse/pole dancing With yoga-like stretches, sensual dance movement and stripper moves, learn to get comfortable performing a pole dance. Group/party classes available. Feb 19 & 20, 4-6 pm. $60. Studio 204, 204 Spadina. 416-278-3948, www.studio204.ca.

safer sm education workshops Ongoing lectures and demonstrations on SM that answer questions, provide a chance to meet new people and explore SM activities in a safe, friendly atmosphere. AIDS Committee of Toronto, 416-340-8484, ext 317, www.safersm.org.

sex and pilates Pilates can improve your sex life through moves and stretches that strengthen your body and enhance sexual performance. Women only. Feb 20, 6-7:30 pm. $35. Good for Her, 175 Harbord. Register 416-588-0900, www.goodforher.com.

sex and yoga for women Deepen your yoga practice and enhance your sex life. Explore tantric concepts, breathing, postures and chakras. For novice or advanced. Feb 13, 1-3:30 pm. $35. Good for Her, 175 Harbord. Register 416-588-0900, www.goodforher.com.

sex, toys and chocolate Ongoing audtions for a local TV talk show about sex. Till Mar 17. Males or females 22-25 yrs. 416-406-7312, mercedez.decastro@allianceatlantis.com.

sexual health @ the library A rep from the Black Coalition for AIDS Prevention provides literature on sexual health including birth control, self-esteem, body image, STDs and infections, and HIV/AIDS at these workshops, Feb 8 or Mar 8, 5-7 pm. Advance registration. York Woods Library, 1785 Finch W. 416-395-5980, www.blackcap.com.

spiritual sexuality Chuluaqui Quodoushka level-one workshop teaches exercises to empower your relationship with yourself and feel a deeper connection to your body. May 12-15. Institute For Contemporary Shamanic Studies. 416-603-4912, www.icss.org.

stripping for your lover A peel-and-play workshop helps women gain self-confidence as they practise “stirring the pot,” “the queen’s wave” and placing their “boobs on Bob.” Women only. Feb 22 & Mar 22, 7-10 pm. $50. Good for Her, 175 Harbord. Register 416-588-0900, www.goodforher.com.

talking in the bedroom Learn the key to satisfaction and intimacy:, and getting across what you want in bed. Mar 6, 1-4 pm. $35. Women only. Good for Her, 175 Harbord. Register 416-588-0900, www.goodforher.com.

tantra Spiritual sex provides powerful experiences of pleasure and love that reach far beyond conventional western traditions. Intro to Tantra Mar 3 ($40), wknd workshop Feb 11 & 26. Lucy Becker Workshops, 416-489-0557, www.tantraworkshops.com.

tantra sacred loving Couples workshop combining eastern lovemaking techniques with modern western approaches to mental and emotional intimacy. Mar 4-6, Apr 1-3, Apr 29-May 1, Jun 17-19, Jul 8-10 & 22-24. www.tantra-sex.com.

tantra sacred loving Courses on sex and intimacy, March 3 ($40). Valentine’s Tantra Level One wknd Feb 11, 12, 13, 26 & 27. No sexual contact in class. 416-522-7337, www.tantraworkshops.com.

unveiling your erotic sensual self Women-only workshop exploring sensuality, fears and emotions and giving you tools to enhance your relationships. Feb 25, 7-10:30 pm. $30. Good for Her, 175 Harbord. Register 416-588-0900, www.goodforher.com.

waking up the neighbourhood for girls who do boys Learn how to give a great butt massage, and seduce the sphincters painlessly and sensually in a fun interactive environment. Mar 8, 7:30-9:30 pm. $30. Women only. Come As You Are, 701 Queen W. 416-504-7934, www.comeasyouare.com.

CLOSE ENCOUNTERS Group holds dances and theme nights every weekend for couples and single women at a west-end hotel. Membership 905-458-2229.

Club Eros A private-members, off-premise (no on-site sexual activity) club for couples. Bisexual and bi-curious event nights and seminars for couples new to the lifestyle. 416-410-2582, www.cluberos.ca.

CLUB PRIVÉ Private club for couples who want to connect with others with sex in mind. Happy Hedonist parties, travel adventures and invitations to monthly events. 416-944-9221, www.club-prive.com.

Dssg toronto Group offers support, educational and social gatherings for pansexual women and men, singles or couples involvedin or interested in learning about BDSM.www.dssg.org.

fetish masquerade DJs Lazarus and Phink spin the third Sat of every month for this fete. Strict fetish and fantasy-style dress code – latex, leather, PVC, harnesses and corsets recommended. No street clothes or cameras. 10 pm. $10 dressed in theme, $12. Funhaus, 526 Queen W. www.fetishmasquerade.com.

fetish night Northbound Leather hosts fetish parties – next is April 2. Fetish dress code strictly enforced. 9 pm. $5 before 10 pm, $15 after. 5ive Night Club, 5 St Joseph. 416-972-1037, www.northbound.com.

4 nuts and wicked club Erotic performances, burlesque fashion shows and provocative dance contests at this sexually explicit night for uninhibited adults. Wed evenings. Metro, 296 Richmond W. www.partieswithoutborders.com.

Madame de Sade’s 416-413-0827, www.madamedesade.com.

parties without borders Group involved in organizing festivities in unpredictable forms at hot, stylish locations. www.partieswithoutborders.com.

patricia marsh house of domination and fantasy Mild to advanced BDSM, festish and role play. Consulations, telephone training, dungeon rentals. Sessions for individuals of all genders and couples. 416-963-9871, www.patriciamarsh.com.

Mr. leatherman An annual competition is part of a weekend of events including SM seminars, a leather ball and dungeon dance. 416-925-9872 ext 2051.

phone-a-strip Experienced professional strippers call and perform a 10-minute, over-the-phone striptease for those whose situation won’t allow a live strip-o-gram. 1-800-730-7824, www.stagmasters.com.

scarlet woman play party Club for dominatrixes and admirers. Meetings first Fri of the month, 9 pm. $10. Vatikan, 1032 Queen W. www.scarletwoman.ca.

SM Women’s discussion group Meets first Wed of month 8-10 pm at 519 Church Community Centre. 416-925-XTRA, ext 2007.

Society of spankers Fraternity of men who meet for spanking parties and discussion. 416-925-9872 ext 2102.

spearhead Leather and denim social club for gay men. Fantasy Ball Feb 22 from 10 pm at the Opera House (735 Queen E), $40, adv $30. For other events call 416-925-9872 ext 2054, www.spearheadtoronto.com.

Trystmag.com A Web site for swingers run by swingers. Publishers of Tryst magazine, e-mail ads, chat and events. 905-847-5351, www.trystmag.com.

Xtabi Swingers club in the west end holds weekly dances on Fri and Sat. 416-410-3177.

ACT (aids committee of toronto) Community-based AIDS organization offering counselling and support services for those living with and at-risk for HIV/AIDS or those touched by the epidemic. 399 Church, 4th floor. 416-340-2437, www.actoronto.org

aids and sexual health info line Province-wide free, anonymous referral service offered in various languages. 416-392-2437, 1-800-866-2437.

anne johnston health station The Barrier Free Health Zone provides family medicine and related services to people with disabilities involving the spine. Advocacy, workshops and a resource collection. Personal attendants are on site and the facility is fully wheelchair accessible. 2398 Yonge. 416-486-8666.

Bay Centre for birth control Co-operative approach to health care, sexual and reproductive health services of Planned Parenthood. Counselling on healthy sexuality, STDs, pregnancy tests and options, reproductive health and emergency contraception. 790 Bay. 416-351-3700.

black cap The Black Coalition for AIDS Prevention is a volunteer not-for-profit organization that works to reduce the spread of HIV infection within black communities. 110 Spadina, ste 207. 416-977-9955, www.black-cap.com.

Board of examiners in sex therapy and counselling Provides referrals to accredited sex therapists. 118 Eglinton W, ste 210. 416-485-4073, www.bestco.info.

canadian health network A Web site sponsored by Health Canada with information on sexuality, relationships, birth control, HIV/AIDS and more. Links to a variety of resources on sexuality. www.canadian-health-network.ca.

canadian men’s clinic Medical doctors focus on the treatment of impotence, premature ejaculation and low sex drive. Helpline 1-888-636-7377.

DAWN Disabled Women’s Network Advocacy group publishes a pamphlet on sexuality and women with disabilities. Box 1138, North Bay, P1B 8K4. 705-494-9078, http://dawn.thot.net/main.html.

hassle free clinic Community-based medical and counselling services in all areas of sexual health. Women’s clinic has birth control, pregnancy testing, abortion referrals, STD and HIV testing and counselling; men’s clinic does STD and HIV testing and counselling. 66 Gerrard E, 2nd floor. Men 416-922-0603; women 416-922-0566, www.hasslefreeclinic.org.

The House Community Health Centre Offers medical, mental health and sexual, and reproductive health counselling services to young women and men 13-25. Planned Parenthood project. 36B Prince Arthur. 416-927-7171.

immigrant women’s health centre Family planning clinic offers information, counselling and referral on birth control, sexually transmitted diseases, pregnancy and AIDS. Chinese (Cantonese and Mandarin), Italian, Portuguese, Spanish, Tamil and Vietnamese spoken. 489 College, ste 200. 416-323-9986. iwhc@canada.com.

planned parenthood of toronto Offers community-based sexual and reproductive health programs to women and youth promoting healthy sexuality and informed decision making. Woman to Woman program offered in conjunction with the Bay Centre for Birth Control, PPT practises a cooperative approach to health care. Workshops on birth control, sexually transmitted infections, teen sex and confronting homophobia. 36B Prince Arthur, 416-961-0113, www.ppt.on.ca.

safer sm education project Project of AIDS Committee of Toronto (ACT), offers monthly workshops on SM play. 399 Church. www.SaferSM.org.

SIECCAN Sex Information and Education Council of Canada, a non-profit organization, provides contacts for educators, researchers, journalists and students. Publishes the Canadian Journal Of Human Sexuality. 850 Coxwell. 416-466-5304, sieccan@web.net.

SexAbility Health care and peer counselling services for youth and young adults with mobility disabilities. Deals with issues related to sex and sexual health through peer counselling, workshops and resources. Anne Johnston Health Station, 2398 Yonge. 416-486-8666 ext 248, www.ppt.on.ca.

sexualhealth.com Comprehensive on-line source for disability and sexuality information. www.sexualhealth.com.

Shout Health services for people under 25 who are or have been street-involved. 467 Jarvis. 416-927-8553.

Sherbourne health centre This primary health care facility serves the lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and transsexual communities. 333 Sherbourne. 416-324-4180, www.sherbourne.on.ca.

toronto raver information project TRIP is a raver-run project providing safer sex and safer drug use supplies, info and education. 416-504-6131.

u of t sexual education and peer counselling centre Drop-in centre provides information, one-to-one counselling, referrals, free condoms and lubricant, literature and pamphlets, reference books and videos (lending for U of T students). Phone line operated by trained volunteer peer counsellors. 91 St George. 416-946-3100, http://sec.sa.utoronto.ca.

www.Sexualityandu.ca A Web site devoted to sexuality education and information covers topics from sexually transmitted infections to contraceptives, and sex advice for teens, adults, parents, teacher and health professionals. www.sexualityandu.ca.

yorkville library Gay and lesbian special collection of fiction, health, parenting, magazines and books for children of gay and lesbian parents. 22 Yorkville. 416-393-7660, www.tpl.toronto.on.ca.

the allied network Provides introductions through personal screening and compatibility matching. 5 Clarence Sq. 416-596-8181.

blind date Pair up with a blind date. 416-444-4300.

connections NOW’s famous personal ads and phone message line appear weekly. 1-800-209-7987.

cruiseline Operated for gay men by Pink Triangle Press, with personal ads, erotic stories and all-male live telephone chat. 416-966-6725, www.cruiseline.ca.

date rite Personalized introduction service for people who are serious about getting serious. Single Gourmet membership included. 416-939-0150, 905-827-5912, www.singlegourmet.ca.

dinnerworks Organizes upscale dinners at various restaurants for eight singles with similar interests. 877-449-6757, www.dinnerworks.ca.

friendly singles walking club Leisurely walks to meet new people in a healthy environment. 416-701-1515, http://members.rogers.com/walking.

interactive male Hook up with other hot gay and bi-curious guys in your area. 1-800-777-8000, www.InteractiveMale.com.

kiss.com personals Web site for singles wanting to meet others online, includes personal photographs. www.kiss.com.

lavalife Telephone and online personal ads for straight and gay singles. 416-778-5566, www.lavalife.com.

lifemates Specializes in personal introductions. Membership features include travel and social events. 1-888-54MATES. www.lifematescanada.com.

live links Telephone and online personal ads for straight and gay singles. 416-916-1111, www.livelinks.com.

manHunt Web site for meeting gay and bisexual men. www.manhunt.net.

manline For gay and bisexual men, connect online or by phone, part of Lavalife. 416-465-5000, www.manline.com.

meet market adventures Arranges trips and mixers for singles over 21. 905-564-1129, 1-800-239-0542.

m4m-world Gay and bisexual men’s free chat line and personals. 416-848-7469, www.m4m-world.com.

the night exchange Telephone chat line for men and women. 416-778-4300.

one2one Telephone chat line and personals ads. 416-324-1400.

quest personals Telephone line and Web site with thousands of personal ads from around North America for straights and gays. 416-724-4444, www.questpersonals.com.

simple date Speed-dating service for busy professionals offers five-minute lunch and dinner dates. 416-410-0022, www.simpledate.ca.

singleinthecity.ca Online video speed dating service allowing singles to safely view personal video profiles. 905-469-9166, www.singleinthecity.ca.

the single gourmet Upscale social club facilitates meetings of like-minded singles, not a one-on-one matchup. Friendly social, sport and travel adventures arranged. 416-939-0150, 905-827-5912, www.singlegourmet.ca.

single horizons Organizes outdoor adventures, social gatherings and cultural events. E-mail leeann.jensen@sympatico.ca. 905-471-7843, www.singlehorizons.com.

singlesonthego.com Club’s Web site is a direct route to singles groups, clubs, dances, volunteers, personals, matchmaking, etc. www.singlesonthego.com/toronto.

squirt Listings for gay and bisexual guys cruising for sex. Live chat, personals, cruising stories and more. www.squirt.org.

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acme art Erotic painting, drawing and sculpture by Fred Franzen, Bud Fujikawa, Sandy Groebner, Katherine Jin, Natalie Majabe Waldburger, Anna Yuschuk and others. Runs till Mar 28. Reception and salon Feb 12, 2-6 pm. ACMEart, 915 King W, #105. 416-799-7356, info@acmeartgallery.com.

actual air Valentine edition of hiphop, indie, soul and more from DJs Peter Merriman, Gary Buttrum and Casey Mecija. Feb 11. $5. Labyrinth Lounge, 298 Brunswick. 416-925-7775.

affection Trinity Square Video presents five videos about love by local artists Johnathan Culp, Karen Kew, Jennifer Matotek, Erik Martinson and Kathleen Mullen. Feb 13, 8 pm. $6. Cinecycle, 129 Spadina, down the alley. satanm-announce@masses.tao.ca.

all you need is love Humane Society rock and roll benefit dinner and dance. Feb 12, 7 pm. Regency Ballroom, Holiday Inn, 370 King W. 416-699-4238, www.sandygrahamproductions.com.

bump ’n’ grind Skin Tight Outta Sight Rebel Burlesque with MC Majenta Butterfly, DJ Spite, Michelle “Toots” L’Amour, Damiana Dolce and Lena Love. Feb 11, 10 pm (doors 9 pm). $20. Gladstone Hotel, 1214 Queen W. 416-536-7717.

castle romance Candlelight, champagne and a chocolate fountain in the conservatory make for a romantic evening Feb 14, 6-9 pm. $35, cpl $60. Casa Loma, 1 Austin Terrace. 416-923-1171, ext 215.

children’s valentine workshop Kids make a natural craft, learn lore and get personal with a chickadee. Feb 12, 10:30 am-noon. $5, fam $18. Humber Arboretum Nature Centre, 205 Humber College Blvd. 416-675-5009, naturecentre@humber.ca.

closer to the heart Regent Park School of Music fundraiser with Kurt Swinghammer, Chris Murphy, Glenn Milchem, Matthew Barber, James Gray, John Obercian, Terence Gowan, Emily Haines, Kevin Drew, Joel Kroeker, Justin Rutledge, Lori Cullen, Todd Clark, Stephen Fearing, Kathryn Rose, Bryan Byrne, Tara Slone, Dave and Jessica Azzollini, and more. Feb 10, 8:30 pm (doors 8 pm). $25, adv $20. 416-364-8900, www.regentparkschoolofmusic.org.

cupid’s ceili Valentine’s-themed Irish dance funder party (Celtic Dance Centre). Feb 12, 8 pm. $20, stu $10. St Michael’s College, Brennan Hall, 81 St Mary. 416-463-3319.

cupid goes both ways Valentine’s dinner and dance. Three-course meal $35, no cover in the lounge. Couples and singles welcome. Butt’r Restaurant and Lounge, 587 College. 416-586-4756. www.buttr.ca.

cupid party Singles party, date auction (funder for Heart & Stroke) and dance. Feb 10, 8 Minute Date event 7 pm ($35), party 8 pm ($8). Lucid, 126 John. 416-809-0618, www.8minutedating.com.

destiny 29: together as one Reid Speed, Aphrodite, Matt Hardwick, Bad Company UK, Kai Tracid, Freaky Flow and others spin at this Feb 12 dance party. 10 pm. The Docks, 11 Polson. $35 (more at the door), adv $25-$30. 416-870-8000, www.destiny49.com.

erotic blender Provocative mix of erotic photography from more than 20 artists. Runs till Feb 28. Come As You Are, 701 Queen W. 416-504-7934. www.comeasyouare.com.

erotic valentine extraba-baba Comedy show w/ Smells like the 80s (Curtis Diehl, Liam Boland, Trevor Wilson, Cameron Wyllie) and Ryan Horwood. Feb 14, 9 pm. Pwyc. Oasis, 294 College. 416-975-0845.

flash fiction comedy jam Valentine’s Day edition with hilarious stories of love and romance. Live writing contest for audience. Feb 13, 8 pm. $6. Bad Dog Theatre, 138 Danforth. 416-696-7848, jerry.schaefer@sympatico.ca.

for the love of eden A Valentine’s Fantasy evening w/ DJ s Deko-Ze and David Knapp. 10 pm. $20. This Is London Nightclub, 364 Richmond W. www.thisislondonclub.com.

how wicked are you? GayGuideToronto.com party w/ host Shaun Proulx includes complimentary martini and hors d’oeuvres. 8 pm. $15, adv $10. Lub Lounge, 487 Church. 416-323-1489.

i feel love.. striptease workshop Learn to feel the music, and feel beautiful and sexy while performing a striptease. Beginners welcome. No full nudity. Feb 13, 4-5:30 pm. Studio 27, 27E Yonge. $25. 416-537-8790, www.katakatadance.com.

inside deep throat Documentary opens Feb 11 at the Varsity. 55 Bloor W. 416-961-6303. www.deepthroatmovie.com.

it won’t just be love that’s in the air Valentine’s pothead singles party, Feb 14, 7 pm. $5. HotBox Cafe, Roach-O-Rama, 191A Baldwin. 416-203-6990, www.roachorama.com.

ladies in red An evening of dance, poetry, music and jazz with performances by playwright/actor/songstress Anne-Marie Woods, jazz vocalist Shakura S’aida, Ayanna Sealey and J Nichole Noël, Feb 13, 8 pm (doors 7:30 pm). $15. Fez Batik, Richmond Lounge, 129 Peter. 416-706-7694.

lazylove Deep, sexy house w/ Sexual Chocolate, Mrs Pink, Jeremy Sultry-Jive and Mr Right Now. Feb 13, 9 pm. Free. IV Lounge, 326 Dundas W. 416-593-5105.

love and lust international film festival Steamy and provocative films heat up the screen Feb 10-14. Included are Nagisa Oshima’s In The Realm Of The Senses, Samson Chiu’s Golden Chicken and Chris Iovenko’s Easy Six. $10/screening. Bloor Cinema. 506 Bloor W, 416-516-2330, www.loveandlustfilmfestival.com.

love at the zoo Children under 12 who bring a Valentine for their fave animal receive free admission. Special animal visitors, educational activities, crafts and a sweet treat included. Feb 13, 9:30 am-3:30 pm. Meadowvale N of Hwy 401. 416-392-5929, www.torontozoo.com.

the love exhibit Photography show by Michelle Maria. Runs till Feb 28, Mon-Fri 9 am- 9 pm, Sat 10 am-5 pm, Sun 10 am-3 pm. Community Gallery, the Yoga Studio, 40 Eglinton E, ste 800. 416-322-9936.

love is the drug Love songs of all sorts w/ DJs Bronson Lee and Hannah Sung. Feb 14, 10 pm. No cover. The Embassy, 223 Augusta. jy@jonathanyam.com.

love stinks Learn about skunks and the Feb mating season of these stinky mammals. Feb 13, 1-2:30 pm. $5, fam $18. Humber Arboretum Nature Centre, 205 Humber College Blvd. 416-675-5009, naturecentre@humber.ca.

night of sirens Music and spoken word w/ Bri-anne Swan, Clara Blackwood, Clara Engel, Cynthia Gould, Ronley Teper, Vitalia Fedossova and Cheri Michael. All genders welcome. Feb 18, 9 pm. $5. Renaissance Café, 1938 Danforth. 416-528-6049, nightofsirens@erosfinearts.com.

put your heart into it! Dayna Manning, Mista D & Chuck D, Peter Elkas, Kazzer, the Ludes, the Medium, Brad Canning and others perform at this benefit for organ donation awareness. Feb 13, 9 pm. $10. Reverb & Holy Joes, 651 Queen W. 416-504-6699. daynamail@sympatico.ca.

rouge AsianXpress party w/ DJ Sumasian spinning vocal house, club anthems, techno/trance, R&B and hiphop. Feb 12, 10 pm. $5 before 11 pm, $10 after. 5ive Nightclub, 5 St Joseph. 416-318-8950, www.aznxp.com.

st valentine’s digital massacre The Digital Organization for Recreational Killing presents an XBOX HALO 2 tournament with prizes. Feb 13, 11 am-10 pm. $40. www.dorkARMY.com.

st valentine’s night’s dream For The Love Of Poetry, The Poetry Of Love w/ host Andréa Jarmai, poets Pier Giorgio di Cicco, Allan Briesmaster, Myna Wallin, Devon Gallant, Souvankham Thammavongsa, Nik Beat and Bruce Meyer. Feb 15, 8 pm. Free. Victory Cafe, 581 Markham. www.artbar.org.

scandelles valentine’s spectacular Burlesque troupe include striptease, music, skits, modern dance, spoken word, original film, bare-a-oke and more. Feb 12, 9 pm. $12, adv $10. Lee’s Palace, 529 Bloor W. 416-870-8000. www.thescandelles.com.

sex, truth and videotape Sandra Shamas, Susan Swan and Francine Pelletier launch the documentary series Sex, Truth And Videotape with the premiere episode Sex And Celebrity. Discussion to follow. Feb 10, 7 pm. (Show begins Feb 14, 10 pm on CBC Newsworld). Free. Glenn Gould Studio, CBC Centre, 250 Front W. Reserve 416-205-3876.

shot through the heart Host Dawn Whitwell, Ina Unt Ina, the Estrogems, Hunter Valentine, the Cliks and DJ Snowbell perform. Feb 14, 8 pm. $7, cpl $15. Gladstone Hotel, 1214 Queen W. 416-922-4459.

skin tight outta sight rebel burlesque Valentine dinner theatre w/ MC Kitty Galore, D Spite, Mina LaFleur and others. Feb 14, 8 pm (doors 7:30 pm). $50 incl show, three-course meal and beer. Cadillac Lounge, 1296 Queen W. 416-536-7717.

spraoi The Flying Cloud Folk Club presents a Celtic Valentine’s night. Feb 13, 8 pm. $12. The Tranzac, 292 Brunswick. 416-410-FOLK.

take me out Morris Panych directs the Richard Greenberg play about a gay baseball player. Runs to Feb 12, Thu-Sat 8 pm, Sat mat 2 pm. $36-$80, stu $20 (Thu), half-price same day rush. Bluma Appel, 27 Front E. 416-368-3110, www.canstage.com.

toronto’s original cash prize Valentine show Comedy show w/ Chris Brazeau & Ruby, Cory Kennedy, Adam McFawn, Rich Clement, Ben Robinson, Andrew Evans, Arie Kizel, Gabrial Dumas and Ben Hur. Feb 13, 8 pm. Free. Ein-Stein’s Cafe & Pub, 229 College. 416-893-5243.

twisted valentine art and cabaret show Art by Menno Krant, Tanya Foxy, Dorota, Anthony Jenkins, Judy Zap and others. To Feb 26. A Twisted Valentine Cabaret Show with EvelnN and Rahi High includes Anya, Jeff Hill the Illusionist, bellydance by Naima, the Parkdale Hookers and host Burger. Feb 12, 9 pm (doors 8 pm). $7. Blue Moon, 725 Queen E. 416-469-2384, noxiousart@carrot.com.

valentine’s is for lovers Every type of relationship is touched on at this comedy show. Feb 14, 8 pm. $20-$25. Dinner packages available. Second City, 56 Blue Jays Way. 416-343-0011. www.secondcity.com.

valentine’s bash 25dates.com hosts a singles match-making party featuring a secret message board, prizes, and contests. Feb 10, 6 pm. $20. Shmooze, 15 Mercer. www.25dates.com.

valentine’s burlesque roadshow The Fluffgirls, Blue Light Revue, Cherry Bombers, Satin Dolls, Sistinas and others perform sultry song and striptease. Feb 12, 9 pm & midnight. $20. Drake Hotel, 1150 Queen W. www.ftabooking.com.

valentine’s charity speed date Meet 15 other singles at this SimpleDate speed-dating charity fundraiser featuring a silent auction of art by Soulvision. (Red Cross Tsunami Relief Efforts). Feb 12, 7 pm. $30. Suede, 117 EglintonE. www.simpledate.ca.

valentine’s day tea Celebrate the patron saint of love. Tea and treats served by the fireside. Feb 14, 1-4:30 pm. $10 includes admission and refreshments. Montgomery’s Inn, 4709 Dundas W. 416-394-8113.

valentine’s day couples show Catch 23 Improv troupe presents a comedy show of real-life couples of past and present competing against last year’s victors. Feb 14, 8:30 pm. $5. Clinton’s Tavern, 693 Bloor W. http://www.catch23improv.com.

valentine’s heart beats Morgan Geist and DJs Andrew Alsgood and Marc de Breyne spin the love. Feb 12, 11 pm to late. $15. 99 Sudbury. mdb@klublife.com.

valentine’s show Reid Jamieson and Lori Cullen croon about romantic good times, Feb 13, 8 pm. $8. Rivoli, 332 Queen W. 416-596-1908.

valentine treats for your sweet’s hands & feet Bata Shoe Museum event includes henna hand decorating, foot massage demo, a Valentine shoe display and live music. Feb 14, 6-8 pm. $15/cpl. 327 Bloor W. Register 416-979-7799, ext 242.

valentine’s trunk show Show by jewellery maker Thom -as Mann. Feb 12, 10 am-5 pm. Sandra Ainsley Gallery, 55 Mill, Bldg 32. 416-214-9490. www.sandraainsleygallery.com.

wicked club Simulated live sex party at TO’s first on-premise sex club. Feb 14, 9 pm. Wicked Club, 67 Richmond E. 416-699-5582, www.wickedclub.com.

XXX valentine show Propeller Centre for the Visual Arts’ love-and-sex-themed show runs to Feb 14. Wed-Sat noon-6 pm, Sun noon-5 pm. 984 Queen W. 416-504-7142.

pussy palace Women’s Bathhouse Committee, a volunteer-run collective, organizes women’s bathhouse nights. For information or to join a subcommittee, 416-925-9872 ext 2115, www.pussypalacetoronto.com.

the barracks Wet and dry saunas, blackout nights, themed nights, sling rooms, in-house toy store and snack bar. 24 hrs daily. 56 Widmer. 416-593-0499, www.barracks.com.

the cellar A dark facility offering showers, a sauna, stall/glory-hole area. 24 hrs daily. 78 Wellesley E (black door). 416-975-1799.

central spa Wet steam rooms, hot stone massages, pedicures, vibrasage and body shaving. 11 am-2 am daily. 1610 Dundas W, 2nd flr. 416-588-6191.

club toronto Health-club atmosphere, with whirlpool, sauna, steam room and outdoor swimming pool. 24 hrs daily. 231 Mutual. 416-977-4629, www.clubtoronto.com.

oak leaf steam baths European wood-fired dry and wet steam rooms, oak leaf brooms, massage. 24 hrs daily (closed Tue 8 am-5 pm). 216 Bathurst. 416-603-3434.

steamworks Bodybuilder’s gym, hot tub, steam room and sauna, showers, lockers, video lounge, cruise and play space. 540 Church. 416-925-1571, www.steamworks.ca.

st marc spa Dry and wet steam rooms, whirlpool, hot tub, porn video lounge. 24 hrs daily. 543 Yonge. 416-927-0210.

spa excess TV lounge, licensed bar, steam bath, booths, public sling and dungeon. 24 hrs daily. 105 Carlton. 416-260-2363, www.spa-excess.com.

aren’t we naughty Adult products and lingerie. 1300 Finch W. 416-665-3633; 5296 Yonge, 416-733-9876.

Aslan leather Durable, custom bondage gear made to fit. 416-306-0462, 1-877-467-1526. By appt only. www.aslanleather.com.

bijou Porno palace with showers. 9 pm-4 am. Wed-Sun. 370 Church.

Come as You Are Cooperatively run sex toy, book and video store; service- and community-oriented, accessible and disability-positive. Offers classes and sex toy room service (Drake Hotel). 701 Queen W. 416-504-7934, www.come.asyouare.com.

Condom shack Protection, etc. 231 Queen W, 416-596-7515; 729 Yonge, 416-966-4226, www.condomshack.com.

Doc’s Leathers Leather and latex including gay-orientated, biker and BDSM gear. 726 Queen W. 416-504-8888, www.docsleathers.com.

eternal moment bookstore Videos and books on tantric techniques and sexuality. 497 Bloor W. 416-924-3780, www.eternalmoment.ca.

Glad day bookshop Large collection of gay and lesbian literature, videos, periodicals, music and novelties. 598A Yonge. 416-961-4161, www.gladdaybookshop.com.

Good for Her High-quality sex toys, books, videos, workshops, sensual art and more. 175 Harbord. 416-588-0900, www.goodforher.com.

Kisses & Ecstasy Adult products, lingerie, movies, costumes and more. 2081 Yonge. 416-322-9999, www.kissesandecstasy.com.

Lovecraft Sex-positive shop offers sex toys, lubricants, books, videos and more. 27 Yorkville, 416-923-7331; 2200 Dundas E, Mississauga 905-276-5772, www.lovecraftsexshop.com.

Metaleather Leather garments with metal insets, including corsets, bustiers and armour. By appointment. 445 King E. 416-868-0333, www.metaleather.com.

MissBehav’N Lingerie, fetish wear and toys, including plus sizes. Live window models Sat. 650 Queen W. 416-866-7979, www.missbehavn.com.

Northbound Leather Fetish shop, leather, rubber, PVC, corsets, restraints, BDSM books, magazines and more. Custom work. 586 Yonge and 7 St. Nicholas. 416-972-1037.

Priape Gay videos, books, clothing, leather, toys, lube, erotica and miscellaneous. 465 Church. 416-586-9914, www.priape.com.

Seduction Downtown adult department store selling toys, books, fantasy and SM stuff, videos and more. 577 Yonge. 416-966-6969, www.seduction.ca.

Stag shop boutique Adult toys for naked play. 449 Church, 316-323-0772. www.stagshop.com.

TAKE A WALK ON THE WILD SIDE Where the stars go to be women, includes a boutique, guest rooms, makeover, transformations and Paddy’s Playhouse Theatre. 161 Gerrard E. 416-921-6112, www.wildside.org.